I know those of you reading this blog have many burdens on your hearts. Some for friends and family. Some for crises you’ve heard or read about. And others for situations which haven’t even happened, but you fear they will.
Me, too.
And sometimes it feels overwhelming.
That’s why I’m so thankful I came across bestselling author and counselor John Eldredge’s “everyday practices for a world gone mad.”
“You’ve got to release the world…people, crises, trauma, intrigue, all of it,” Eldredge advises. “There has to be sometime in your day where you just let it all go. All the tragedy of the world, the heartbreak, the latest shooting, earthquake–the soul was never meant to endure this…It’s way too much. Your soul is finite. You cannot carry the sorrows of the world. Only God can do that. Only He is infinite.”
When I first read those words, I felt such relief. All of the day’s sad/disturbing/painful stories were too much for my soul to bear. And that was ok because it’s not my job to bear them.
“Somewhere, sometime in your day, you’ve just got to release it,” Eldredge adds. “You’ve got to let it go.”
We do that, he says, by stopping throughout the day for a “One-Minute Pause” as we pray:
“I give everyone and everything to You, God.”
I love how The Message Bible paraphrases the call of Jesus to lay down our burdens:
Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life.
I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me—watch how I do it.
Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you.
Keep company with me and you’ll learn to live freely and lightly.
Matthew 11:28-30
Eldredge describes the One-Minute Pause as an invitation to “benevolent detachment,” which is the ability to let things go–“not so much physically, but emotionally, soulfully.”
It’s not a call to stop caring, but to surrender all those cares to the One who ultimately is in control.
This releasing of our heartfelt concerns to God helps clear out our “cluttered soul,” Eldredge explains.
It’s a “turning over into the hands of God whatever is burdening us and leaving it there,” he adds.
We empty our souls of the burdens we never were meant to carry and the Lord fills our souls with what we always really needed: Himself.
Go ahead and breathe deeply. Then take a One-Minute Pause to pray:
I give everyone and everything to You, Lord.
Then pray it again every time you find yourself trying to carry the burdens your soul never was meant to bear.
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Please open in your browser to hear “Come to Me (The Rest Song)” by Steven and Hannah Musso. (Click on CC at the bottom for Closed Caption lyrics.)
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I’m a newspaper reporter-turned-author. And I’m a passionate encourager, but always a truth-teller. I worked for nearly two decades in a unique position as a patient advocate in my oncologist’s office and the Cancer Prayer Support Group I founded in 1991 is the country’s oldest such faith-based group.
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Song brings the message I need everyday. It reminds me whose I am. “Come to me” is precisely what I need to do every minute of everyday. Peace, calm, joy, and love.
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Dear Sandy,
I loved that song too–so peaceful and I need to hear that too!
Gratefully yours,
Lynn